Second chances: Win or lose

Hello everybody! Today it is about a common subject, second chances. There is a quote that says: “Your life does not get better by chance. Your life gets better by change”. How are these things related you may ask. Well, the next paragraphs will give you the answer.

In life, not everything is black and white. As much as we try to be straightforward and assume that when something ends, it’s forever, life has its games. Most of us are taught the fact that if someone loves you, will never leave you. Yes, it does. And it’s not always about you. It’s about their life path, dreams, and cycles. No one is forever. But some people do find their way back to you. And then turns up the question: are you giving the second chance?

I used to be a believer in this theory too. I believed that when someone leaves you, it’s forever. And life proved me wrong. And I had to learn how to give second chances. Not always is their fault. Sometimes, if not most often it is your fault too. What do I mean about this? Well, people need to evolve. Maybe then wasn’t the right time. Right person, wrong time. Maybe you or they had some lessons to learn and things to improve and you couldn’t do this together.


There is a thing that I know for sure and I have been through this a lot. The people who are meant to be in your life will always find their way back. And people never forget how you made them feel… If you truly meant something for someone, neither their 10.000 partners, friends, nor family will be ever able to erase the space that you have in their heart. Because they will never be you.

So if life gives you a second chance, maybe to learn or become the happiest you will ever be, will you take it? Or let it go?

Love you all and thank you for being part of Yanny’s Journey! 🙂

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